The Tottli Blog
Practical guides on sleep, feeding, diapers, and the first year, from the team that builds Tottli. No fearmongering, no fluff.
How to prep an older sibling for a new baby. What actually works at each age, what backfires, and how to handle the regression that almost always arrives.
7 min read
Most pumping parents are wearing the wrong flange size, and the standard sizes that come in the box are the biggest culprit. How to actually measure, and what changes when the fit is right.
7 min read
A real conversation about the pull between "being productive" and being in the season with your baby, and how to make peace with both without performing either.
7 min read
Exclusively pumping is its own complete feeding method, not a fallback. An honest look at how it compares to direct breastfeeding, what's harder, what's easier, and how to decide.
8 min read
A practical guide to combination feeding. How to start, how to protect your supply, and how to make the breast-and-bottle mix work for your real life.
8 min read
A clear-eyed look at when "sleeping through the night" actually happens, what it really means, and what you can do (and not do) to get there.
7 min read
A grounded look at what's actually worth tracking with a newborn (and what's not) so logging stays useful instead of becoming another source of stress.
6 min read
An honest, side-by-side look at the five baby tracking apps worth considering in 2026, including pricing, what each does best, and which one fits which kind of parent.
9 min read
A grounded checklist of the signs your baby is feeding well, and the signs that warrant a real evaluation rather than internet reassurance.
7 min read
A realistic guide to building a freezer stash. When to start, how much you actually need, and how to do it without sacrificing supply or your sanity.
7 min read
Wake windows are the single most useful concept for newborn and infant sleep. A clear age-based guide and how to actually use them without driving yourself crazy.
7 min read
Cluster feeding can feel relentless, but it's not a problem to fix. What it is, when to expect it, and how to make the marathon evenings feel survivable.
7 min read
A practical guide to diaper counts by age. What's normal, what's a green flag for feeding, and what's actually worth a call to the pediatrician.
6 min read
A week-by-week look at how newborn sleep evolves in the first 12 weeks. Total hours, nap patterns, night stretches, and what actually changes when.
9 min read
A clear, no-judgment guide to newborn feeding frequency. How many feeds a day, how to read hunger cues, and when to feed on demand vs. on a schedule.
7 min read
A calm, practical walkthrough of your first seven days at home with a newborn. What's normal, what's worth a call to the pediatrician, and how to actually get through it.
9 min read
A grounded guide to what teething actually causes (and doesn't), when each tooth typically arrives, and what genuinely helps a miserable baby through it.
7 min read
Tummy time is non-negotiable for development, but the standard advice (60 minutes a day from birth) sets most parents up to feel like they're failing. Here's what's actually realistic, by age.
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